Returning Home and Finding Rest Can Be Difficult : Nightmares with PTSD and PTSD Treatment

Our solider is suffering from PTSD, Nightmares with PTSD, and often needs PTSD Treatment. The American Solider is a proud member of our society, with so much to offer us all, and when our amazing solider comes back home, and tries to recover from the wounds of war, finding rest can be difficult. Your new life back home as a civilian is going to be different for you as a returning soldier, but it does not mean there are not good resources for you as a returning solider back from Iraq or  Afghanistan.

Nightmares and PTSD Treatment

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American Solider PTSD Treatment Starts with Your Doctor

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD often results from a series of stress related events or one violent event in a person’s life.  Victims of rape, robbery, muggings or even civilians in times of civil disorder or war often experience post-traumatic stress disorder.  PTSD treatment involves talk therapy, a combination of nutrition review, job assistance, medical and pharmaceutical assistance.  The symptoms involve lack of concentration, inability to remain restful, and loss of sleep.  The constant stress levels of sufferers of PTSD are increased cancer risks, heart disease, and brain and memory risk factors.

Stress is a built in survival instinct in all mammals, and exists from our early evolutionary days, as a primitive hunter and gather society.  When something was after you, it usually meant life or death, and your adrenal gland will emit hormones to help you run faster, react better, in effect to survive.  The problem is, memories associated with such stressful events, are often stored, in the brain, near and in connection with the adrenal gland.  This direct link, to stressful memories, keeps a direct switch to your hormones, and keeps stress a constant whenever that hormone is emitted.

This is a simplistic description of the stress that we all feel and react to each day, but new stress is often paired with existing stress memories.  The memories of the past, are often related to new experiences in your brain, and this pairing can keep that moment (when you fought an enemy solider, when a mortar blew up near your squadron, when you dodged a sniper, when you out ran a gunfight) right with you as you prepare for the next job interview.  The stress of the past moment, can be instantly, and very powerfully paired to your civilian challenges of family life, work, and adapting back into a less regimented life.

The new treatment for PTSD is a simple solution, to allow you to rest, and let your new memories not be paired with the older stress filled emotional stress memories.  PTSD treatment often involves a series of doctor visits, and continual exercise.  The best natural cleanser of emotion in the brain is exercise, and the next, is relaxing and refreshing sleep. Experiencing nightmares is often a inhibitor of relaxing sleep cycles, and finding a good treatment to improve on these sleep cycles has been found.  The drug that is found to be effective, is prazosin.  This drug works to inhibit the connection of your adrenal gland to your new memories, and assist you to not find your old memories as a danger or stress point as well.  The combination of this drug, with another drug, propranolol, works with talk therapy, to suppress the stress triggers of your adrenal gland, by blocking the direct connection of the stress hormones that the adrenal gland, and others produce.  The hot emotions you felt at the time of the mortar attack, with the drugs, good rest, and talk therapy, will reduce these memories to a moment in time, not a new emotional stress feeling, each time you remember them.

Why Nightmares Are Important to Reduce with PTSD Treatment

As discussed previously, we are best in our emotional state with good sleep patterns, and exercise.  When we exercise, our brains recharge.  The hormones in our brain reset themselves, and we can handle stress more effectively.  Every centenarian has a simple but effective exercise habit, as this is not just for your heart and other muscles, but for your brain as well.  The other important habit is having a good sleep cycle each night.

When you experience constant nightmares, and wake in a panic with the memories of the stress of the past battle, you are in effect there at the battle again.  The exact same hormones that were created by your adrenal gland in your brain, are now recreated to replicate the moment of your past.  Even new nightmares, can draw on the past stress, and links are created.  The danger here is that new experiences can all be traced back, in your brain, to the one stressful event, and the sooner you are able to stop this spider web of traceability back to your stress event, the better you will be able to deal with that drive to work each day.

Rest is important for your brain, and without the 15 minutes of REM sleep you need each night, and the quiet of your 8 hours of sleep, you cannot find relief from your PTSD symptoms.  PTSD Treatment is complicated, but the two direct connections, of past stress events, and new events, needs to be stopped with medicine, talk therapy and medical attention.

PTSD Treatment is Best with Help From Your Doctor

There is no magic bullet on PTSD Treatment, but you can find relief with good exercise.  The simple step of exercise each day, will be a great step for you.  As well, limit your sugar and starch intake, and eat nutritious and healthy food.  Your heart will thank you for this.  Keep your general outlook on life positive, with good friends, family and positive people all around you.  You are the master of your domain, with help with positive effects from healthy living.

Adopt a good plan with your VA and your doctor.  Please be sure to find your PTSD treatment with guidance with your doctor, as only you and your doctor can ensure that any medicine or medicine plan is right for you.

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Posted by Cheryl Hanson - March 10, 2012 at 12:11 pm

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How to Remove Post Traumatic Stress From Your Civilian Life

Returning back to your civilian life and schedule can be a difficult task for the solider and their family and friends, especially when post traumatic stress is a factor.  The adjustment should be a happy one for you as a returning soldier, but usually the return is exactly the opposite.  All the emotions you needed to hold tight, keep hidden, and not express, are waiting for this time, and these emotions will rear their ugly heads upon your return back home.

Post Traumatic Stress is All about Emotion

PTSD, or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is the disease that has a long history through time.  The earliest recorded sufferers of PTSD were in the wars in the frontier areas of America.    When fighting the Native American Populations for the immoral natural selection of North American Land, the soldiers returned home with nervousness, and often mental challenges.  The yellow fever was often blamed for this result, but no one correctly linked the violence or killing that really caused this emotional trauma.  These solders were the first to experience the emotional challenges of post traumatic stress.

History of Post Traumatic Stress

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Post Traumatic Stress is Real

Knowing more about the history of post traumatic stress is a good way to understand how many people have actually suffered from this terrible disease.  Through the years, the increase in mental challenges for soldiers, increased the emotional exhaustion that these warriors felt.  The increase in military exercises from the frontier days, to the Civil War, were good evidence that post traumatic stress existed upon the soldier’s return.  During the 1920′s, both the veteran’s of America’s most bloody war, The Civil War, and World War I, were found to have the mental exhaustion, that resulted from war.  The Woodrow Wilson Administration linked the mental exhaustion to war, and labeled the disease as “Shell Shock”.

This term tried to explain the complete lack of society influence, mental clarity, and general malaise that these war veteran’s felt.  Many led themselves to live outside of their family, finding themselves unable to cope and to work.  They lived in public places, and the emotional refuse of these wars ended up living the national parks in Washington D.C., and in Central Park in New York City.

Later, in the 1970′s the Vietnam War yielded its own victims to these same areas, and all of us remember seeing a Vietnam Veteran in a wheelchair in a park at some point.  Today, they are now our proud soldiers who built Iraq, and fought in Afghanistan.  Notice that even though we have given the disease a respectable name, it is still closer to the original description of “Shell Shock”.

Emotion during war has not been addressed, as it is a time of stress, and during war, life is on a thin line.  Every soldier knows what it is like to find themselves in a safe place, but reaching still for their gun, when someone drops a book or a heavy object.  No emotion can be exhibited during war, as it means the soldier is putting themselves and others at risk.  For this reason, a soldier can go years with guard on full throttle, waiting for the next bomb to drop.  Emotional digression is not acceptable, and can only result in pure moments of bliss.  Unfortunately, this is the exact time you and your family have been waiting for; your return back home.

Drama will not help Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

As you moved through your maneuvers as a soldier, the thing that was leading you forward was the fact you would be returning home soon.  Then when you meet this goal, the realities of how to come back to civilian life are very tricky.  There is a lot of regime and schedule in military life, and some soldiers upon their return find themselves following the time schedule as best they can to continue this new level of normalcy.

The soldier’s family can find this incredibily stressful and they can’t believe their loved one is so ingrained into military life.  They mistakenly believe that their soldier can “Turn off” the military conditioning, with a smart and quick decision.  This can be dangerous, as a gradual transition is more advantageous.  For this reason, it is wise to take part in any effort the military tries in a transition for the family and the soldier.

Continue with a gradual return to civilian life, cut the drama from each day as much as possible, and create a static and regime that will work for both you and your soldier.  Post Traumatic Stress is often very eruptive and can result in emotional battles between the family and the soldier.  If you need time to understand how this process works, be sure to visit a local support group before your soldier returns home.  The drama of civilian life can sometimes be too much for the emotionally charged soldier, so a brief time transition can give the soldier the resources they need to move forward.

Post Traumatic Stress is something almost every soldier experiences, so patience and support is the best medicine.

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Posted by Cheryl Hanson - February 4, 2012 at 5:36 pm

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Solider of the Family of Strength

marcel the shell 200x300 Solider of the Family of StrengthYour Soldier may have found a new way to envision his or her life ahead, but you are still remembering the little one that you raised.  The most terrifying thing about realizing that your loved one is now a soldier, is the fact that this position puts your loved one in terrible danger.

The most amazing part to this process is the realization that you have no control over this decision.  The lack of control can be really difficult, and when it comes to envisioning life in a new way, where your son, daughter, brother, sister or cousin has made this decision on their own, can be alarming.

Maybe you need to step back a bit, and let the natural progression of growing up, continue as you have seen it occur.  It is not easy to let go, but that is exactly what you need to do when you are in a Family of Strength.

Marines are Not Soldiers but Marines

The best part of being in a family of strength, is letting the decision become the one that is right for your marine or soldier.  Whether they decide to be on the most advantageous life choice for their future, by specializing in electronic mapping, healthcare, or on the front line, the choice is not your decision.  The family of strength, is there to support and realize that they need to put their stronghold military career member first, by backing their decision, and putting their patriotism first.

If you are envisioning that these decisions are incorrect for your loved one, can you really start the discussion without becoming too dramatic or over emotional during the talk?  It is important that you do not add to the stress of your armed service member, or your soldier, as the stress they feel at home only transitions to the field of battle.  Your support is the most important choice you can make when you have a loved one in service.

Marines will be envisioning the battle ahead, and need full focus on this event.  The battle is dangerous, but more so, it is even more treacherous if you cannot bring yourself to support your Marine before they depart for the dangers of the mission.  The things they will bring back with them, will as well, need your full support when they return.

Life on the Move

Creating a home on the battlefield will involve your soldier keeping his or her memories close, so they always feel like they have the support they need to move into any challenge with their family close.  We are all connected, and even though you may not be close in physical connection with your armed service member, you can be close in mental and emotional ties.  Do not let your service member leave your train of thought, and keep them close to your heart, and that will bring them back home to you.

Envision the beauty of the day, and keep your love close to that time.  Your present day can involve good momentum in the activities that can help other servicemen and women.  There are many groups that can offer you a way to make a difference as a civilian and show your support.  Keep the messages on email flowing, and keep them close with constant correspondence.

Every Veteran will tell you the most important mission you can create in a Family of Strength is the support of your soldier to keep them moving forward in battle each and every day.

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Posted by Cheryl Hanson - June 15, 2011 at 10:41 am

Categories: Standing Down   Tags: Ahead, Brother Sister, Career Member, Cousin, Decisions, Electronic Mapping, Life Choice, marines, Military Career, Natural Progression, Patriotism, Realization, Service Member, soldier, stress, Transitions

Finding your Place at Home

nyc ok 211x300 Finding your Place at HomeIt is not always so easy to be back home, and put all the busy days of battle behind you.  When you return, there is a lot of jarring noise, that is not unlike the artillery and shelling that you may have experienced, but more of emotion and drama around your family and friends. When they see you they are so happy to have you back, but they are often not fully aware of your current mindset, and how hard it can be to evolve back into a civilian.

Struggles are Clearly Emotional

Not everyone has an understanding that you have been through some things that will take time to work out.  It may be that you never are fully past the trauma and the tragedy that you have seen.  This is an indication that you may need to seek some support groups in your unit, and discuss your feelings and emotions with your CO.  It is not a thing to take lightly, and is not a sign of failure.  It is just a fact of war and battle, as we are human beings, and emotions can be hard to deal with.

 

Any time a person is put in an excessively stressful position, they need to first, recognize that the situation exists, and that they may be suffering some emotional stress and trauma from the situation. Early detection can be essential, and if you let these feelings grow, they can get worse, and not better.

The sooner you tell someone, the best for you and all your unit, your family and your friends.  There is no shame in it, it is a fact of war.  No battle is free of scars, all members of the party have endured more than they should have, it is a fact of being a true American.

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Posted by Cheryl Hanson - February 26, 2011 at 6:53 pm

Categories: Standing Down   Tags: Artillery, Busy Days, Current Mindset, Emotion, Emotional Stress, Emotions, Failure, Family And Friends, Feelings, Human Beings, Scars, Shame, Stress And Trauma, Support Groups, Tragedy

PTSD Support

PTSD, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, has been with us with every war.  Until only recently, have we seen it as a medical condition.  There is nothing wrong with getting treatment for this disorder.  Not only do soldiers get it on the front lines, but those who treat soldiers, will be affected.  Our soldiers who come home, need to know we are with them, and look forward to helping them recover as much as they can.  They will always be the soldiers who came home, will have regrets and memories, and we need to be patient to allow them time to adjust with those ideas.  They will always have the changes, always be heroes and soldiers, and why would we want to change who they are?  We just need to understand what is happening, and help.

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Posted by Cheryl Hanson - January 15, 2011 at 11:53 pm

Categories: Standing Down   Tags: dealing with ptsd, help at home, Heroes, Medical Condition, Memories, Post Traumatic Stress, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, PTSD, Regrets, serving, soldier, Traumatic Stress Disorder

Finding your Way at Home

dark soldier 300x225 Finding your Way at HomeYour duty has ended, and a new day has dawned on you.  They give you your walking papers, and you feel a bit overwhelmed.  You have had to forget your dreams and visions for so long, it is hard to imagine what life was before you became a soldier.  You are not alone, and you should know these feelings are normal.  It is not an easy transition, and one that will take some time.

No Time to Lose

What if you have limited funds, and you are not going to last long with what you left the military with?  What will you do to survive.  Here are some ideas, and make swift moves to take them on, if you have some financial issues.

  • Join a Volunteer Organization to Help Homeless Vets:  They are everywhere in the country, and need your expert advice and experience.  The possibility of helping and serving again, will pull you out of your slump.
  • Look into School Near Home:  Staying at home can be a challenge, especially when you are used to order and constant follow through in your life.  Often others in your family, will be looking to you to lead now, and you will have to remember the challenges your commanding officers faced, and take them to heart here.  The roles may be reversed, but you have the strength and the power to survive.
  • Join a Karate or Security Team:  Your admirable security skills will do you well in helping people realize goals of becoming more secure at home.  There are many people who want to learn how to use their mind and their bodies to learn the martial arts, or need a security professional for their business.  You can be sure you will be called to many events and social arenas for your skills you learned as a Soldier.
  • Use your cooking skills for good:  Often times, you have been called to serve in the operational areas of the military.  You have many great skills, and you should be able to find a great place to utility them.  This can get you going until you are sure what you want to do with your dreams and goals.

There are many areas in civilian life where your talents are necessary, and you can find a great outlet quickly, and effectively if you motivate, continue to move forward, and stay positive in your mindset.  Do not let yourself down.

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Posted by Cheryl Hanson - January 14, 2011 at 12:41 am

Categories: Standing Down   Tags: Challenges, Commanding Officers, Dreams And Visions, Expert Advice, Feelings, job, jobs, Karate, Limited Funds, martial arts, Operational Areas, return, security, Security Skills, Security Team, skills, Slump, Social Arenas, soldier, Staying At Home, Swift Moves, talents, Transition, Volunteer Organization, Walking Papers, Will Take Some Time

New Help for Soldiers

solider flag america 300x225 New Help for SoldiersThe new war era we are in is most likely going to last for a few more years.  The politics of nuclear weapons, oil, and other tragic events surrounding areas of disturbance, will keep our American Soldiers on foreign soil for a few more years.  The key to keeping our soldiers focused and strong is support.  The best way is to do it on the internet.

You will see a great new forum on this site, and it is brand new as of today.  I believe that our soldier’s should have the ability to connect with each other when they return, when they are about to depart, and when they are in battle.

There is no reason that family and friends can not contribute, share great resources, and send messages of love and encouragement.  If you have a soldier who has returned, encourage them to reach out, and they will find great support here.

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Posted by Cheryl Hanson - January 11, 2011 at 10:48 pm

Categories: Standing Down   Tags: American Soldiers, battle, battle front, Brand New, Encouragement, family, Family And Friends, Few More Years, forum, Great Resources, Love, New Era, New War, Nuclear Weapons, returning home, Soil, soldier, soldiers, Tragic Events

America the Beautiful

dreamstime 7715413 300x197 America the BeautifulYou are our hero, and it is because of you that we can live in peace and some harmony.  We are able to voice our opinions, find our voices, and speak out against what we think is unfair or unjust.  We have you to thank for this great honor.

When you joined service, chances are you were supported to really consider this task and the amount of challenges in being a serviceman or servicewoman.  You have the opportunity to be the strong person in your family, and many of you should have other family members who served as well.  We all are indebted to you for your great sacrifice.  It is not lightly that we should find you, shake your hand, and thank you for giving so much for our safety.

As the world gets larger in population, it also gets smaller with great communication tools, and with many areas for information and shared tools of news.  And, there is a lot of missing information that is not available.  One area, is there is not a lot of areas for communicating stories and issues that returning soldiers have.

I hope you feel welcome enough, to share your story, and how you are doing right at this moment.  There are many soldiers returning, and as well, heading back to battle.  We all need to send them our support.

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Posted by Cheryl Hanson - January 9, 2011 at 10:21 pm

Categories: Standing Down   Tags: America The Beautiful, bravery, Challenges, Communication Tools, Family Members, Harmony, Hero, Opportunity, Peace, Population, PTSD, Sacrifice, Serviceman, soldier, stand down now, thanking soldiers, Voices

Addiction Habits

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When you were in service, there were many chances to blow off steam, and you have had your chance to find time to go on drunk benders, and to try some illegal substances.  It is really important that you remain focused on your past habits, as just events, and try to merge into the new soldier at home, without the substances and drinks.

Your Life is Waiting

The more you go out and enjoy yourself with drinks, and take time to try different drugs, you are going to get sucked into the world of addiction.  It is not anything to be ashamed of, but it is very common with soldiers who return home.

The soldier at war, is dedicated to serving, and finds herself or himself often busy performing tasks, missions and new initiatives with focus and clarity.  When you return home, there is none of this.  If you bring this clarity and focus back into your day, and still work at home like you are in service, in service for yourself, you will be able to break free of boredom, and other habits that could become more than habits.

Do not give up on yourself Soldier

Even when you are home, you are still actually a soldier of war.  The very fact that you are bringing yourself home can be a mental challenge for you as a war hero.  The regret and emotion tied to this battle can lead you to try to forget your emotions.  Do not get sucked into the world of bars and too much forgetting each night.  You are only going to really allow yourself some tragedy, in that your life is waiting to happen, and you need to stay crisp, focused, and find yourself once again.

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Posted by Cheryl Hanson - January 8, 2011 at 10:06 pm

Categories: Standing Down   Tags: addiction, Benders, Boredom, Clarity, Drinks, drugs, Emotion, Emotions, Illegal Substances, Initiatives, job, job hunt, Mental Challenge, Missions, new life, New Soldier, soldier, Soldier At War, Steam, Tragedy, War Hero

Dealing with Stress: Message to Family Members

farm home 300x196 Dealing with Stress: Message to Family MembersWhat may be easy for some people, the noise, the normal day-to-day concerns of life, working, and new technology can be very difficult for returning soldiers.  Often they have been in isolated areas of battle, away from normal society, and in foreign lands in foreign languages.  Do not underestimate the strength of your soldier.  They have been through hell and back!

Take time to let them adjust.  Do not push, gently, and calmly let them find help.  Work with your friends and family to get the support you need while your service man and woman find their feet.  The crush of being in battle, being on threat 24/7, can make any one jumpy.  The constant noise of children, pets, and TV, can be very unnerving for the human brain returning from a stressful and quiet place of battle.  Battle can be noisy, but extremely quiet as well.

So, some advice:  take some time to keep the news off, keep the TV off, just for a little while.  Take some time for your children to find a great new activity at school, so they remain growing and learning, and then can give your soldier the much needed adjustment time.

Bells, whistles and any constant noise can be very unsettling for the returning hero.  Keep a pace of calm and peace, whenever you can.

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Posted by Cheryl Hanson - January 7, 2011 at 10:08 pm

Categories: Standing Down   Tags: Bells Whistles, calm, Dealing With Stress, Family Members, Find Friends, Foreign Languages, Friends And Family, Hell, Human Brain, Man And Woman, New Technology, Pace, Peace, Pets, Quiet Place, Returning Hero, Service Man, soldier, soldiers, stress, support, troops

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